Archive | July, 2012

101 Beauty Tips Every Girl Should Know

27 Jul

I found this on Pinterest…my new Google.  Not every tip is meant for every girl or woman, and not every girl needs all or even any of these.  These are just ideas, which I found interesting  and some that actually make good sense and I thought perhaps I need to do or follow.   Of course, we all know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it’s much more important to be pretty on the inside rather than pretty on the outside.  Ok, enough disclaimers, I now present to you 101 Beauty Tips Every Girl Should Know…or at least should peruse over! :)

101 Beauty Tips Every Girl Should Know

In the world of beauty, there are endless tips and rules to keep you looking fabulous. In the list below Beauty High breaks down all those tips to make the industry less scary from makeup artists, hair stylists, skin care gurus and of course, our beauty staff. Remember, beauty should always be fun!

101. “Always keep your summer makeup minimal. Minimal and sheer makeup is the way to go when it’s hot and muggy outside.” – Mary Greenwell, celebrity makeup artist

100. “The best thing to do when you go to a makeup counter is be armed with what it is you want to do.”- Raychel Wade, founder of Cheek to Chic and La Prairie’s colour ambassador

99. Use excess eye cream on cuticles.

98. For smudge-proof eye makeup, take blotting tissue to remove any oil or any excess makeup from the eye area.

97. “A good perfume should consist of balanced blend of notes arranged in a way that creates harmonious accord.”- Alexis Bergman, P&G’s Global Flavor and Fragrance Trends

96. To prevent hair color from fading in the summer months, use a conditioning treatment weekly or bi-monthly.

95. Breakout before a big event? “Take oral cortisone a few days before the event to clear your skin”- Ava Shamban, dermatologist and author of Heal Your Skin.

94. “In order to keep eyeliner from running and smearing, opt for liner formulas that offer stayproof wearability.”- Robin Schoen, Urban Decay Makeup Artist
93. Always allow about two fingers from your nose to where blush starts.

92. “Make sure you hydrate the skin and put on a primer”- Jessie Powers, makeup artist and national educator for Make Up For Ever

91. “Balance out your shimmer. If you’re doing a shimmery eye, do matte lips”- Raychel Wade, founder of Cheek to Chic and La Prairie’s colour ambassador

90. Brush out your curls with your fingers to give your hair a more tousled look.

89. To make your manicure last, apply a thin layer of clear every two days.

88. Wear white eyeliner to make eyes appear less red.

87. “Take a shimmery gloss to the center of your lips, top and bottom – this will attract light to your lips, making them look pouty.”-Katrina Barrion, makeup artist for Giella Custom Blend Cosmetics

86. For slicked back hair, use a serum.

85. For the perfect cat-eye, “select a thin liner brush that is tapered to the point”- Pamela Taylor, makeup artist

84. To make your cheek bones appear higher, use bronzer under the cheekbone and highlighter on the actual cheekbone.

83. Before you blow dry, start with a volumizing spray or light gel to give the roots some lift.

82. For fuller lips, extend the lip line using a flesh tone lip liner. Be careful not to go overboard!

81. The #1 reason for flaky mascara is that the formula is too dry or old. Make sure to close mascara after use to help keep its moisture.

80. To fake clear skin when you notice a pimple, “Apply tea tree oil as soon as you spot it”- Stephanie Flor, makeup artist

79. During summer, “Its easy to forget that feet can get sunburned. Be sure to apply sunscreen with a minimum SPF of 50 when barefoot”- Dr. Leslie Campbell, DPM

78. For clear skin, look for a cleanser with salycilic acid.

77. When choosing a red lipstick, you just want to remember to get one that looks good with your undertone. If you have a warm undertone, then go for warmer reds, and if you have a cool undertone, then go cooler.
credit: Jamelah

76. Sunscreens that claim to provide “all-day protection” and “water resistance” are not reliable; don’t be fooled by these claims and reapply all sunscreens at least every two to three hours.

75. When self-tanning, use a tanner with a guide color. “It will give you instant color before the effect and it will show you exactly where you put the color and where you may have missed”- Sinead Norenius, founder of Beautisol

74. “If you’re afraid of red lipstick, I love putting it on and then blotting it off to wear it as more of a stain”- Pat McGrath, makeup artist

73. For the summer months, you don’t want to be caked down in foundation so try a tinted moisturizer instead.

72. Use blotting papers to manage oil and shine in your T-Zone “which are also great for cleaning up around the eyes”- Rebecca Restrepo, makeup artist

71. The antihistamines in allergy medicine dry out the skin, so skip heavy foundation during allergy season. Instead, use a tinted moisturizer.

70. To make curls last, make sure hair is completely dry before you begin with the curling iron.

69. To make a zit go away faster, don’t pick at it. The bacteria on your fingers will create more redness.

68. Use an exfoliater to get rid of dead skin but limit yourself to 2-3 times a week so you don’t dry out your skin.

67. Always wash your makeup off before bed. “That morning-after look has never been a good one, for anyone”- Rachel Adler, beauty director Beautyhigh.com

66. “Too much bronzer is a nightmare for pale skin”- Jason Ascher, resident beauty expert for Barneys New York. Opt for an illuminating cream or light powder to get a glow.

65. Pick a sulfate-free shampoo, as sulfates can be harsh and drying on the hair cuticle.

64. If you have greasy hair, avoid directly conditioning roots and condition from your ear down to ends.

63.”When you wear a red lip it’s important that it stays exactly where you put it. Using a long wearing lip pencil to create the perfect shape and a lip color are key to having a perfect red lip.”-Kristofer Buckle, celebrity makeup artist

62. To make volume last all day, avoid running your fingers through hair. “Oil from your hands can weigh down your roots leaving your hair flat at the end of the day”-Tatum Neill, Arrojo Studio

61. Try to avoid washing your hair everyday. Constant shampooing leaves hair dry and your scalp will create more oils to compensate for the loss of moisture.

60. Always use a moisturizer with SPF in the morning. Even in the winter!

59.”Go for a trim every 6-8 weeks to ensure you have no damaged ends making your hair look unhealthy”- Nick Arrojo, Arrojo Studio (and the man who worked for seven years changing lives on What Not To Wear)
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58. Remember, clean brushes to fight against potential bacteria and breakouts!

57. Clean out your makeup bag at least once a year to get rid of old products that may be expired or you no longer use.

56. Winter can be especially harsh on your hair leaving it extra dry. Eugene Davis, celebrity hair stylist suggests using an Avocado Oil Hair Mask.

55. If you don’t have nail polish remover, apply clear nail polish over and then wipe off. It will remove old polish.

54. During the summer, wear chapstick or lip gloss with SPF.

53. To add volume to clean or unwashed hair, use a dry shampoo spray.

52.Change your beauty routine for Spring/Summer months. Your skin needs less coverage during the spring so you can swap the heavy products for lighter ones.

51.”I always think that less is more, there’s a point where you look in the mirror and say ‘Is this too much?’ and if you even have that inclination then it usually is.”- Kim Catrall, Sex and the City

50. When applying bronzer, “first start by applying it around the perimeter of your face and follow with a light dusting on your forehead, nose and chin”- Mally Roncal, Mally Beauty

49. To get curls when you have straight hair, use the following, “a volumizer or volume thickening agent, a curl enhancing product, light holding finishing spray”- Vicktor Stevenson, Hair Stylist

48.”Foundation should never be heavy”- Aura Schwartz, makeup artist

47.”The right red [lipstick] will light up your hair, eyes and skin immediately, the wrong one will not.”-Poppy King, Lipstick Queen

46.Use a shimmer eye shadow to compliment a bold matte lip.

45.To revive curls mid-day, “Take a very small amount of pomade and put it in the palms of your hands. Rub them together. Next gently smooth the pomade over your curls and scrunch just a little bit”-Eugene Davis, celebrity hair stylist

44.”You should always go to a hair-removal specialist, where waxing, laser etc. is their main business – don’t go to a nail salon for a wax”- Cindy Barshop, Completely Bare and Bravo’s RHONYC

43.”A little silvery-blue eyeliner on the lower lid is very flirty”- Dimitri James, makeup artist, author and creator of Skinn Cosmetics

42. “Use your concealer as a base on your eyelids”-Melissa Silver, Maybelline makeup artist

41. If you’re not a fan of liquid liner, get the look of liquid eye liner by using a gel instead.
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40. Exfoliate before applying self tanner to get rid of dead skin. Tanning products tend to cling to dryer areas.

39. If you straighten your hair with a flat-iron, cause less heat damage by letting hair air-dry. The less heat, the better!

38. To minimize pores, use a pore-minimizing facial wash followed by a toner. Make sure the toner is alchohol-free so it won’t dry out your skin.

37. The healthier you are, the healthier your hair! Take a daily multi-vitamin with Biotin to help hair grow.

36.To mask split ends, use an iron to straighten ends and then apply a hair repair cream.

35.There are always cheap, natural and effective homemade beauty recipes.

34.To fix brassy hair color, use a color-depositing shampoo with purple tones. For unwanted redness, use a color-depositer with a green tone.

33. To cover up roots in a hurry, use a dry shampoo spray for your hair color. If you don’t keep this product around, use eyeshadow (in a shade closest to your hair color) for a quick fix.

32. Get a “dewy glow” using a highlighter or illuminator above your cheekbones and on the browbone.

31. To contour cheeks, use a matte powder (a few shades darker than your skin tone) with an angled brush. Blend on temples and under cheek bone.

30.When using a cream product, lock it in by using a translucent powder over it.

29. Get quick volume by using a root lifter, then use hairspray to set hair. This will prevent it from fall flat during the day.

28. For makeup that lasts all day and night, use a makeup-sealing product.

27. To help you find the right shade of foundation, choose the product you think is closest to your color and try it on your jawline in natural light. You will be able to easily compare it to your neck’s color to see if you need to go for a different undertone, lighter or darker.

26. Try out the funky hair color trends without dying your hair. Instead, dust bright blush in your ponytail for the same effect. (Refinery29)

25. “Foot perspiration is typical in the summer and can lead to fungal infection and unwanted odor. Wash feet daily, and let them dry thoroughly before putting shoes on”- Dr. Leslie Campbell, DPM

24. Splurge on items that are important to you.”If mascara is really your thing and you fall in love with a mascara that ‘s $40, buy the mascara.”-Raychel Wade, founder of Cheek to Chic and La Prairie’s colour ambassador

23.”Don’t be too serious: It’s only Makeup! “- Francois NARS insists you play around with new colors

22. To reduce unwanted shine, use a moisturizer that mattifies, that way you get the moisture your skin needs without looking greasy.

21. To create a lived-in look for your hair, use thickening or sea-salt mist before you blow-dry. Follow by running a volumizing or texture cream through hair.

20. When using an eyeshadow primer, only place the primer where you’ll be adding color.

19.”Cream rouge [blush] should be the first thing that touches your cheeks when you want to project an image of healthy and pinched cheeks”- Pablo Manzoni, former creative director for Elizabeth Arden

18. If you choose to use false eyelashes, remember to use the dark glue as it will blend in with the lashes.

17.When buying “organic” beauty products, make sure to check if they are FDA certified organic. This will prevent you from getting scammed.

16. Use a facial exfoliater bi-weekly to get dead skin of dead skin. Makeup will look better on a clean, smooth canvas.

15. After using a hair conditioning mask, follow with “a cold water rinse to close the hair cuticles”- Ursala Stephensen, Motions celebrity stylist

14. To get your braid to last all day, try styling hair that’s “dirty with product”. This will make the style stick longer.

13. Use a clarifying shampoo once a week to get rid of any product build-up that may have occurred during the week.

12. If you have chipped nail-polish, add crackle or glitter on top to disguise the look of chipping.

11. Use a pumice stone on your feet after the shower to get rid of calluses on your feet.
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10. Hydrate your under-eye area with an eye cream to prevent puffiness and bags.

9. If you have light hair,”put a lotion over the eyebrows and hair-line” when self-tanning the face. Also remember to “apply it in circular motions and blend down to the neck”- Sinead Norenius, founder of Beautisol

8. If you often find yourself being too tired to wash your face at night, keep makeup removing wipes in your night stand to prevent a runny mess or morning break out.

7. Pop 1-2 Advil before going waxing to prevent pain.

6. The best way to get rid of ingrown hairs is to exfoliate,”which rids the skin of dead cells and allows the hair to break through the surface”- Marlena Ramoy, Bliss Spa Esthetician

5. Carrots are good for the hair. A healthy diet leads to a beautiful you.

4.”The best time to apply creams is after the shower, as the skin has been de-oiled.”- Dr. Stephen P. Bracci

3. Replace mascara and liquid eyeliner after three to four months.

2. To keep hair color vibrant longer, use shampoos and conditioners formulated for colored hair.

1. Use a cream or milk cleanser to wash your face. Creams are less drying than gels

(Source:  http://www.beautyhigh.com/101-beauty-tips-every-girl-should-know/)

For Low-Maintenance girls (like me :) ) – I found more tips (since 101 can never be enough :) ) and these touched upon different areas, plus I really want to try using a Cleansing powder, because I wash my hair every single day…and I’m getting tired of doing so!
1. Let your hair get dirty. I used to wash my hair every other day but I’ve been stretching it out to three or four days. I just use dry shampoo liberally. I love Oscar Blandi Dry Shampoo but I’ve started using Ojon Full Detox Rub-Out Dry Cleansing Powder which is supposed to actually cleanse your hair. I also find it gives it a bit of extra heft. Dirty hair is amazing because you can literally make your hair do anything you want when its a bit dirty, the natural oils totally change it’s structure and capabilities. It gets so full and you can make it hold any shape, just get a teasing comb and start sculpting. Wash your bangs if you need to. Audrey Hepburn only washed her hair once a week! I don’t know if I could go that long. You also spend less time in the shower, and keep your hair color longer if it’s dyed.
2. Use toner, it helps with acne and oil production in hot climates. I read several times that they don’t do anything, but I have noticed such a difference since I started using one, I have clearer skin and my makeup lasts longer. I use an astringent from Neutrogena.
3. If you normally use eyeliner or shadow during the day, try going without it for a week and see how you like it. I used to use a lot of liner out of habit but I decided to try a fresher look and I much prefer it. One thing I can’t live without is a ton of mascara…I can’t give it up. I probably literally wear about five coats on my upper and lower lashes for night-time.
4. Get Anastasia Tinted Brow Gel so you don’t have to spend so much time filling them in. It’s two in one, it gives your brows a defined shape and it makes them stay in place. Mine gets crazy without gel…
5. Drink ginger tea if you get an upset stomach often. I tried it at the recommendation of a friend and I like it because it helps with nausea and also because it’s very spicy and warming. My favorite is Triple Leaf Ginger Tea.
6. Stop using moisturizers that come in pots–they accumulate bacteria. How very gross!! Use stuff that comes in tubes and pump dispensers. My mom and I got rid of some products we were using that were in pots and noticed we now get fewer blemishes.
7. Don’t forget to put sunscreen on your forearms and your ears. Just make sure your rub it in really well on your ears!
8. If you are travelling and forgot to bring a scrub, you can exfoliate with Vitamin C powder. I always travel with Vitamin C powder, in case it wards off colds…
9. To give your hair lots of body without using heat, make a ponytail on the very top of your head, really get it up high! Twist the ponytail around itself to make a bun and secure it with bobby pins.Wear it like that all day and take it down at night for nice big hair, or you can even wear it to bed and take it out in the morning.
10. Flick your eyeliner up at a dramatic angle and put your blush very high on your cheekbones, then pull all of your hair back very tightly to give your face a new dimension. Alternatively to soften your features you could tease all of your hair into a soft cloud and pin it abstractly on top of your head, and leave some tendrils hanging down like they did in the seventies. Trying new things is fun.

(Source: http://seaofshoes.typepad.com/sea_of_shoes/2011/08/practical-beauty-tips.html)

VODKA isn’t just for breakfast anymore! It actually has plenty of other uses — including some beauty treatments.
Vodka astringent

To tighten your pores, get rid of grime and refresh your skin, use straight vodka as an astringent. Apply with a cotton ball both morning and night.

Vodka shampoo

Put a shot of vodka into your bottle of shampoo to help cleanse your hair and scalp. Some say that vodka can also stimulate hair growth.

Vodka mouthwash

I’m not sure why you’d want to make your own mouthwash, but if you do, you can use vodka. Mix 1/4 cup of cinnamon with two cups of vodka. Seal in an airtight container for a week. Strain through a coffee filter, then mix the liquid with an equal part of warm water to create the mouthwash.

Vodka dandruff treatment

Put three teaspoons of crushed rosemary into a cup of vodka. Let it set overnight and then strain through a coffee filter. Massage the liquid into your scalp and let it dry. Rinse with cool water.

Vodka foot wash

For foot odor, wash your feet in straight vodka or add a little to your foot bath when giving yourself a pedicure or soaking your feet after working out.

And if all that fails to beautify, or at the very least amuse you, make a Vodka Martini or Vodka Cranberry!  Cheers!

 

In adding to my best summer ever, I’d like to offer up a  new favorite pastime:  nighttime swimming, with your kids.  Not sure why we waited till Night 5 of our trip (where it’s been 110 each day) to partake in this happy activity, but trust me…Nights 6-14 will also include nighttime swimming.  Note to Kevin, please pack your swim trunks!

xoxo,

T.

5 Ways to Wear a White T

20 Jul

I saw this on The Today Show (which I have to say, I’m not too thrilled with how they handled the departure of Ann Curry, however, since I wear a white T (v-neck) at least 4 days a week in the summer, I though this merited a mention) and there are some great tips and suggestions on incorporating the white T into your wardrobe.  The little white T is as versatile in your wardrobe as the little black dress.  Packing for our summer getaway, I have packed almost as many white t-shirts as I have undergarments!  :)

Work

Wear as a shell…Pair with skirt and blazer, or skirt, slacks and a cardigan.  Throw in some neutral accessories.  Easy to transition from day to night.

BBQ

Pair with pair of Bermuda Shorts.  Jazz it up with fun accessories and sandals or flats

Night out on the Town

Pair with white jacket and black slacks or a cute pair of crop pants with sharp accessories.  Gladiator sandals or high heels are a great way to complete the outfit.

Weekend Looks

Colored jeans and fun scarf and you are ready to go anywhere…errands, lunch with the girls, watch a ball game, or a visit to a wine bar!

Special Occasion

Pair with great skirt and fun jewelry.  Tuck in the shirt and wear a fabulous pair of fancy shoes and fancier jewelry.  I have this sequined skirt in gold, and while I like to pair it with a white blouse and jean jacket, for the summer, I pair it with a t-shirt, play down the jewelry (so as not to over-bling myself…as even I have limits), and wear with either Tory Burch gold flip-flops, or dress it up a bit with gold gladiator sandals.

Other Fun looks with White T’s

Men in T’s

I get my White T’s at Nordstrom (Anniversary Sale starts today, btw), and get the Caslon brand.  I basically buy them in bulk, because I do wear them year-round and I like a v-neck.  I also love the J. Hilburn Luxury Men’s t-shirt in White!  Both men and women can wear it.  The Gap and Hanes are also great, tried and true tested brands, which get high praise from others.  And yes gals, you can wear a Men’s t-shirt, but make sure it fits and it’s not to large, otherwise you might as well have “I’m With Stupid” blazened across the front! :)  Guess that’s a good reason you can buy it in women’s sizes.

The white t-shirt…You can dress it up, you can dress it down…but just don’t leave home without it!!

What kind of shirt does a Golfer wear?

A Tee Shirt!! :)

Enjoy a little of the Rhythm of Love by the Plain White T’s.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWiwuiT58Yc

Bon Voyage!!

xoxo,

T.

Life’s Little Instructions…

16 Jul

Amen!!

And, if I may add to that…the Key to a Fabulous Weekend, hang out with great friends, family, and if at All possible, spend the day in a lake floating on a noodle.  Best Summer Ever!!

xoxo,

T.

Summer Fashion TRENDS

13 Jul
It’s been BLAZING hot here in Chicago, the weather is finally cooling down, yet we are still Knee Deep in Summer…And, even though I posted about Summer Fashions and trends a few weeks back, I’ve been “inundated” with requests for more Summer fashion info and photos (and in my world, inundate equals 5 requests :) …And here you have it!
Women’s Summer Fashion TRENDS…compliments of Etcetera
Nautical as we know it. Pure Americana. Summers on the Cape. Red, white & blue. Done in one-shoulder stripes, gold-buttoned denim, linen cardi’s, cropped pants, washed jeans, breezy t’s.
How to wear it:
  • Red washed denim jean jacket & ankle-length jean
  • Red jersey deep-V’d dolman-sleeved cardi
  • Red/white cotton voile Florentine print tunic
  • Red/white embroidered washed denim skirt
  • Navy ultralight linen blend tie-belted cardi
  • Navy/marina/white striped one-shoulder tee
  • Cobalt denim slim-leg ankle-length jean
  • Linen white lightweight jersey open cardi
  • White stretch cotton twill cropped pant
We’re crushing on blue. The new go-to hue. Loving it in all its variations. Inky, vivid, classic; striped, printed, mixed. Done in scads of impossibly cool pieces to slip on, over & into.
How to wear it:
  • Ikat print jersey trapeze dress
  • Stretch cotton print sleeveless shift
  • Ultralight linen blend tie-belted cardi
  • Striped jersey one-shoulder tee
  • Curve-trimmed jersey tee
  • Scroll-print tunic-length shirt
  • Draped-neck jersey tee
  • Side-draped animal print skirt
  • Rope-trimmed slubbed pencil skirt
  • Denim slim-leg ankle-length jean
Bare legs. Bronzed shoulders. Sultry. Strappy. South Beach hip. Done with the dancing-in-the-streets vibe of sexy dresses, hot tops, billowy silos, ankle-grazing skirts, gala prints.
How to wear it:
  • Hot house floral strappy wedge dress
  • Crinkled gold metallic sleeveless sheath
  • Abstract silk print strappy patio dress
  • Ikat print jersey pleated trapeze dress
  • Neo-classical print jersey A-line dress
  • Patchwork print jersey strappy tee
  • Zip-trimmed animal jacquard sweater
  • Wood/bone/amber trimmed linen tunic
  • Abstract tile silk print full circle skirt
  • Abstract print long skirt-to-strapless dress
Playful pieces. Icy. Spicy. Girly as all get-out. Find barely-there halters & short-shorts. Pieces riffed with sparkles, ruffles, ruching, tassels; pintucks, gathers, peplums & lace.
How to wear it:
  • Crinkled gold metallic sleeveless sheath
  • Crochet-edged pointelle sweater dress
  • Shimmer jersey halter-styled tee
  • Sequin-striped stretch jersey tee
  • Lace-backed stretch jersey tee
  • Pinstriped jabot-ruffled sleeveless shirt
  • Ruffled voile print drawstring blouse
  • Patterned cotton lace tunic-over-tank
  • Tassel-hemmed full gathered skirt
  • Cuffed slubbled cotton short-short
Behind the seams. It’s a wrap. We’re sculpting simple silos into something fabulous. Pleating, twisting, ruching, gathering & manipulating fabrics to fit like a dream, flatter like mad.
How to wear it:
  • Pleated linen sleeveless dress
  • Gathered cotton voile print shift
  • Seam-detailed cotton twill sheath
  • Ruched crinkled gold metallic sheath
  • Gold-ring-gathered halter-styled tee
  • Ruched one-shoulder striped tee
  • Twist-detailed jersey U-neck sweater
  • Pleated drape-necked jersey tee
  • Pleat-detailed scoopneck sweater
  • Seam-shaped belted fit-and-flare shirt
Men’s Summer Fashion Trends
* Big and Bold – colors, patterns, the look…Big colors Orange, Mustard and Greens
* A Boxy New Suit – you don’t have to spend a fortune on a suit, but make sure it fits well
* A Double-Breasted Blazer – a great staple in your wardrobe
* Fifty Shades of White – bone, off-white, white, pale Grey, taupe,
* Bye Bye Skinny…and skinny jeans really didn’t look good on any man, in my opinion
* Mix it up…colors, fabrics, patterns…but, please do so with style and caution
* Go with the Flow…wear clothes that are loose, yet not baggy
More Men’s Looks I happen to Love!!
And yes these Toms, are indeed, for the Men…but I’d totally wear these with a white blouse or t-shirt and rolled up jeans, and pop it with a red sweater when it got cool!
Dressed to a T is going to be enjoying some time off, so will be posting either more or less often…haven’t decided yet. Guess it depends how the family is behaving. :)
Enjoy your summer as well!  And no worries, my iPad is 3G-enabled, so no Wi-Fi is No Problem…and Best Summer Ever is still in full swing!!
xoxo,
T.
And no, this is NOT me, but it does get me in the VACA mood!

100+ Things to do this Summer

6 Jul

I think everyone (including myself) is tired of talking about how hot it is outside…but, oh my goodness, is it ever hot outside!  And no doubt, since you may not have been able to be out and about enjoying the breezy summer weather that never was, here are some fun-filled ideas which you can do both inside and out (if you so dare).  Keep in mind, these are just options, but when the kids are saying “I’m Bored, I have Nothing to do” and you are ready to pull out your hair…you may refer to these handy, dandy lists!  Both Mer Mer and Paddy pulled that line on me recently…I mean, I thought we were all living the Best Summer Ever?!  So, out came a game of Apples to Apples which quickly cured them of their boredom!  And after perusing these lists, I’ve put a Pillow Fight and Playing Dress-Up  at the top of My list!  And may I say, Kevin picked the wrong weekend to come home! ;)

This was the kids posing in some lovely garden in San Francisco, enjoying yet another fabulous summer a few years back.

And here are some more ideas!

And if that isn’t enough…here’s more!

And on my list of things to do…here are my Top 5.

1.  Finish writing my screenplay (or actually start writing my screenplay). :)

2.  Make at least 3 recipes each week from my Pinterest board “Eat, Drink and be Terry” and 5 crafts this summer from my board “Crafty”.

3.  Read 10 books; finish reading the 50+ magazines that have piled up since I haven’t had time to go through them and finish watching Royal Pains (while using the elliptical as it’s too hot to run or walk outside).

4.  Spend as much time “By” the ocean as possible, while never being “in” the ocean, yet all the while avoiding the sand!

5.  Take the kids to a Cubs game; White Sox game; Bears game…and San Fran Giants game (AT&T Park is hands down the best ball park ever!  They serve fine chardonnay and Stella…I mean, what’s not to like?)!  My goal is to try to go to each of these sporting events in the closest time frame possible…and I think I can pull off doing all 4 games in the span of 11 days (but it shall be a Bears pre-season game…giving Peyton Manning his 1st loss as a Bronco!).

This above photo was taken several years ago in the midst of a Segway excursion around Venice Beach, CA and the Santa Monica Pier…to this day one of my all time favorite days…especially when Kevin wiped out on the Segway when his wheel fell between the path and the sand and I yelled, “Man Down…Man Down”.  :)  Kevin was fine, and even his ego wasn’t bruised.  I think the kids are getting tired of that story, btw. :)

oh, and  number 6.  Wear more skirts and dresses! :)

I’ve never been a fan of when the weather is extremely cold (Keep Warm) or oppressively hot (Keep Cool), but truly, I do hope you keep Cool…And please add to that list of things I don’t care for, when it’s past the 3rd week in January and people are saying “Happy New Year”!  Not sure, but I don’t care for that either.

xoxo,

T.

Tie me Up

2 Jul

And no, this is not an homage to Fifty Shades of Grey…:) I know my friends, and know they will mention this.  As I always say, “there’s an elephant in the room…it needs to be addressed”.  And yes, I read all 3 of those books in less than 2 weeks, as referenced in previous blog. :)

http://dressedtoat.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/fifty-shades-of-fabulous/

During the week at my house, it’s typically just Patrick and I, as Mer Mer is at IU, and Kevin is in San Francisco.  So, when Patrick needs to wear a tie, when they have home games for Lacrosse, and needs a bit o’help, it falls on my shoulders.  Kevin has never required help tying his tie (one of the benefits marrying a much older man :) ), so I truly didn’t have much experience doing so.    I thought, perhaps others are also in my shoes, so wanted to share some of the Tie Tips I’ve found.

How to Tie a Tie

How to Tie a Half-Windsor Knot

And for those who need even more guidance, here’s a YouTube video…chosen based on # views, and for a Standard Windsor knot…which seems to be the knot of choice!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7X7SpkkEMY

Bow Ties! – a very basic illustration on how to tie a bow tie!

How to wear a tie clip – Now that we have the windsor knot  down Pat (pun intended)…we needed to address the Tie Clip!    Patrick indicated he wanted to wear a tie clip, with his perfectly knotted tie.    I suggested he wear it on the smaller part, so as not to be seen (like Kevin does), but he said, “no Mom, it has a design, I wear it so people can see it”.  And he’s right.  Note to Kevin (sadly, he won’t see this as he is not a follower of this blog).

Some rules regarding wearing a Tie Clip

• “We see guys wearing their tie bar too high or too low all the time. The rule is simple: It goes between the third and fourth buttons of your dress shirt”.

• “It may sound obvious, but a tie bar doesn’t just clip the front end of your tie to the back-end. It fastens both ends to the placket of your shirt.”

• “Finally, never wear a tie bar that’s wider than your tie. That’s the worst! Keep things narrow.”

Tie Tacks – an ornamented pin with a receiving button or clasp that is used to attach the two parts of a necktie together or to attach a necktie to a shirt.  I’ll be brief re: these…because you have to push the pin through the tie to make it stay, I’m not a fan.  Why would one put a hole in a silk tie?  Exactly!  So, no tie tac.  This picture is of a ladybug tie tack.  Hmmm.

I’ve mentioned this before, and I’ll continue to mention this…Men – If you do not have a pink tie in your repertoire of ties, You are Missing the Style Boat!

Other Fabulous Ties

Keeping it in Proportion

Knowing how to tie a tie is one thing, knowing which knot to wear with a particular collar is another!  Our friends at J. Hilburn, have developed a helpful guide to take the mystery out of this question all men must have!  This is available in a handy pdf, which you can download right here:

http://www.jhilburn.com/styleUpdate/home/May12

Happy MANic Monday, and a very Happy 4th of July week!!

xoxo,

T.

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